That surprised me, because I'm not a jock. Then I hurt my shoulder, partial tear of the rotator cuff, while working on my car. And I didn't meet anyone I wanted to go out with. It was something to do at night after work. I wanted to work out more so I took things like parcourse, weight training, etc. I signed up for some continuing education courses at the local community college. They were all married, so I was a third wheel to them. After my divorce, my friends told me to get out more.